We are who we are...

Seen as i'm new to all this blogging lark i don't really know where to start...So for today's blog i thought i'd talk about perceptions. For something as simple as having this internet to write this blog or even knowing how to spell, write and function is a perception. To me do i really think every time i write another word, "omg i can spell"... no i dont think of it all just same old same old. But to someone in the third world who hasn't got the education to learn or maybe even know what a netbook is, it would be boggling for them. The fact that i can have access to water but don't really like to use it unless to clean myself would again be a mystery to them. They wouldn't understand i don't like water, or that i fancy a glass of lemonade rather than what i think  to be (boring) water, they would just see i have excess to water whenever i want and they don't. Does it make me or them wrong? No because its a perception. I find it boggling how really rich people live, their celebrity lifestyle. Buying anything they want, when they want it, designer labels and red carpet events. To those third world kids we are filthy rich and lucky. But yet don't we at least find ourself moaning about something we want, "need" or are mad at. Again not us being selfish it's just how we live. We see a celebrity have a meltdown and think "what the hell have they got to worry about." We dont stop and think what stress their under or what's caused them to feel like that we just make an judgement off how we are feeling. So yeah people may be having it worse than some people, some people may have a worser illness or bigger problems but who says to that person it doesn't feel the same weight of issue. Who's to say how we handle that particular situations wrong? Because at some point we must feel it's the right decision for us, it's how we cope. It's how we live, it's who we are. :)

"Let's go and eat our body weight in jelly beans one day." -
 Me and sarah have plans when we is better. ;) 

Take one day out of my week having a phonecall with and friend and talking about jelly beans, might be mind numbingly boring to some of you but to me it was funny and made me smile. Because that's me but come on who seriosuly couldn't not think those people are just awesome!! ;) Having weird and wonderful conversations with friends just because you're bored or feel like it makes me happy because its always nice in a crazy world just to laugh about any old thing!

Make the biggest splash you can , afterall you only get one life. 
 Make it magical. <3

Photography is a major perception, i might percieve a taking picture of running water giving me a metaphor about life. Other people might just see a picture of running water. It's what works for you. It doesn't mean my opinion is better than theirs or visa versa it's just all down to the individual.


Seriously crazy how much is perception like every little tiny minuscule thing is.Down to me liking the sofa i sit on to, to what brand of toothpaste i think cleans my teeth best!
And probably if you sat there and thought about it, it would drive you crazy but really the people we are impacts on the decisions we  make and how we react to certain situations. 


 I guess where the inspiration for this particular post come from was knowing that's theres a million people out there who are worse than me in life situations but also a million people who have it better. But that's just me and my opinion, so yeah from time to time i'm gonna feel down, just as long as you know you are gonna brush yourself off and get back up again when you have the strength too. I heard a quote that said "Giving up doesn't mean your weak, it merely means you've been strong for too long."  I think this quote is true :), I don't mean ever to give up on life i just mean at the end of a bad day or days you allow yourself to say "it's ok not to be ok." Because that's how you feel and if your not being real to yourself and those around you how can you ever be truly fulfilled with your life or who you are! So yeah to all those people out there feeling down or feel differently to what you think you should or have been told is "right" it's ok, you are allowed, it doesn't make you weak and selfish. There's stigma if you are depressed or have psychological issues your "crazy" but to me i don't think it should be that way. Whatever's up is your stuff and i'm sure every single person on this planet has 
some "stuff" somewhere along the line.  It's makes us like every person on this planet, human! ;P Whether it's  little or big "stuff" everyone has it because more people aren't 100% perfect all the time It's what we all have in common and always will, unless science creates a super human. ;)

So that's me another waffle over, i hope those who have read have enjoyed and i totally haven't sent you into a pit of depression. ;) A question to leave you with... Do you have to be pure perfection to be perfect or is it infact your inperfections that you make you perfect? Is it our mistakes and learning from them that mould us into who our loved ones love and adore. Afterall being perfect, isn't that just boring? ;)


Bye for now,
Becca xox